The other day my dad give me some simple dating advice. He said that the most important thing to dating successfully is being myself, being confident in who I am and not building outcomes for how the date should go. He told me that when I go out I should just ride the wave and have a good time. When you build outcomes you are far to insecure when things don’t pan out the way you wanted them to. The truth is things are so dynamic when two different people get together that you can’t really generate an accurate outcome in the first place!